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The beginning of this year has seen a few "firsts":Ryan's career change (a temporary move backwards in the financial department) The company I work for had an *unexpected* purchase (they announced at the end of December that effective January 1st, we have been sold) Luckily, was able to retain my position. Whew!  Ayla's enrollment into preschool (sad she is big enough already!) And soon, Ayla's

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Christmas was awesome! We splurged on a small couples gift (something practical and boring) and had most fun wrapping gifts for Ayla and spending quality time with family and friends! We spent our time eating (almost non-stop) for an entire week.....THANK YOU stretchy pants and loose sweaters! and decorating treats and making feasts for family gatherings. The holidays were spent at home this

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Where does he find the time? Ryan has been working on a few home-improvement projects the past two months: Creating extra storage space in the attic above our garage (almost finished!)  He built a small cabinet in the small hallway in our small house (sound like Dr. Suess, yet?) to maximize storage capacity...... and he even found time to make and can Pepper Sauce using peppers from our garden!

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This is a different post than the norm and about 'what I do' (professionally speaking). I'd love to stay home and be full-time wife & mom but as that is not an option, I do the next best thing....working a cool job. Ironic that I work in an industry which is centered around food....and truthfully, I'm a horrid cook and a bit dangerous in the kitchen (and I'm okay with that- have accepted and

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Over Labor Day Weekend we took a trip to Utah to visit Grandpa Tomkinson for a few days.He had a very special gift for Ryan: a signature Guy LeMond 853 Model racing bike! Not just any bike, grandpa's bike which logged over 3,000 miles last year in races.....It is an honor.Grandpa's sight isn't what is used to be and Ryan is interested in taking over where grandpa left off- competitive racing.

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A little fun on the Ipad...which made us laugh hysterically for several minutes!  Ryan as the "Elephant Man" 'Mr. Brianiac'  Kind of looks like a scheming mad-evil scientist..... Ayla looks like a cartoonist baby off the movie 'Incredibles'    Squishy-Face!  It's a giant brain-headed toddler! Huh- no wonder Peanut is sooo smart!  Meet the 'Elephant-Man's' Wife  ...and her sister "Mega-Lips"

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The Stephenson Sibling Reunion was hosted in Meridian two weeks ago and what a blast it was! Family Photo, only missing a few.... The first night we reserved the church and hosted a Family Derby Car Race. Each family brought their own uniquely decorated  cars.  Of course, there was much feasting to be had, as well....Hawaiian Haystacks (delicious!)  Ayla attempting to "help" Ryan assemble the

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It's been some time since we've taken a non-medical related vacation...last week was our first getaway in years!  I have a sister who lives in Pasadena and Ryan has a brother who lives in Manteca, so a drive to California was created.Our concern was how Ayla might travel....but she was the perfect traveling companion, hardly a peep and she did so well! First, we had to locate an awesome pair of

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I am not a golfer by any stretch of the imagination. Actually, I am considered a liability when it concerns the game of Golf. Serious.Each year for work we help sponsor a 'Customer Appreciation Golf Tournament' in which customers are invited to spend the day playing a round of golf at one of Boise's finest golf courses.This year it was hosted at the beautiful Banbury Golf Course. I was safely

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On Thursday Ryan Celebrated his 35th Birthday!Seriously- he doesn't look a year older than 30ish....  We celebrated on Sunday with a Family BBQ in the backyard....yep, Ryan even cooked his own Birthday Dinner! Why? Because he's been married to me for almost 14 years and knows how I cook...it's safer/edible this way.    Two little monkey's sittin' in a tree......Brayden and Ty!   BEAUTIFUL girls!

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...since our family has come together for a sibling picture. But first;  SQUIRREL!!  In our backyard tree inside the birdhouse. Kinda funny. We've never seen them in there before...must be taking a break from the heat. Back to the family photo:This was taken at grandma Beth's funeral services and only 4 siblings are missing from the picture. You know who you are...... Funerals are sad but yet a

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Dear Grandma Tolman,You are greatly missed.Especially your smiles, laughs, warm spirit, birthday cards, generosity, letters and phone calls.It's awesome that you finally get to meet Zoey and reunite with your husband, son and family who have gone before...... Grandma drinking her favorite beverage: Chocolate Milk! Grandma sure loved her chocolate (huh, must be hereditary...yep, that's where I get

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At times, working does have its 'side perks'...such as a brief (very brief) visit to Fisherman's Wharf in San Francisco.An impulsive, unique detour!Myself along with two co-workers arrived at the Oakland airport late in the evening but couldn't pass the opportunity to take a quick drive across the bay. After all, none of us had been to that part of California and being so close was temptation-

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Has it been mentioned that Ryan is very talented?  Well, he is! These are his latest, gorgeous creations:which he built during his "spare" time..... A set of hand-crafted children's Rocking Horses made from Hickory Wood.(Each horse required approximately 15 hours to complete) Pint-sized rocking chair made from Cherry wood with a red mahogany stain. (This little chair required over 27 hours of

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I'm not sure where to start but this seems like a good place: When you think you're having a hard time and life feels challenging...think about the courageous people HEREandHERE and very quickly you'll realize how incredibly blessed your life is.I have a tender spot in my heart for special children and these BOYS have stolen my heart.  If you can, please say a prayer for these families- prayer is

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We try sooo hard to prevent from getting sick because when we catch something =  Ayla catches something! and it usually hits her much harder than us....poor kiddo and those lungs. I'll admit, I'm a pansy when it comes to being sick. Yep- P.A.N.S.Y pants....I'd much rather lay in bed and sleep or read (side note: please don't bother me when I'm sick...yes, I am one of those "

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I teach Gospel Doctrine Class in Sunday school (sorry to those of you who attend- ha!) and one of the recent lessons was regarding the parable of the Good Samaritan found in Luke chapter 10. For reasons unknown, that story has been buzzing around inside my brain. A lot. So it must be important. And I needs learn something from it, obviously, or it wouldn't be hounding me. We know the story; a man

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It's awesome when we can escape on a date as being under "Ayla quarantine" places a hamper on the social scene. Not that we could claim much social interaction prior but.... The PBR/Professional Bull Riding circuit came through Nampa and the dairy-farmer-ranch-girl inside me wanted to see the show. Mostly, it's the fascination of watching other people (wow- and let's just say there are some

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We were going through Zoey and Ayla's boxes the other day- recalling how incredibly small and fragile they were and remembering how that 5 month hospital stay, only a year and a half ago, feels like it was only yesterday....yet seems long ago. Zoey at 10 days old holding Ryan's finger We're contemplating building a mini-wooden cedar chest for Zoey's memorabilia. Shifting through her things; the

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Every month, on the 8th day, we do something 'kind' in honor of Zoey-Munkin. It doesn't have to be grandeur or note-worthy, just something extra kind for another person to bring a smile to their day. It feels good.So good that I try to do something everyday...no matter how small. Like telling the person at the cash register how much their smile is appreciated. Or holding the door for the 

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Be not ashamed. So I admit it....I enjoy food. We have a love/hate relationship. I love to eat.... hate that it ends up as padding in all the wrong areas. Being a wholesale food broker has its definite advantages: I get to eat, talk about and prep food. Ironically- I am "kitchen challenged" although that hasn't seemed to hamper. Just don't ask me to 'cook' from scratch and nothing bad will happen

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We visited Zoey on her birth date and placed balloons at her site- it was bittersweet and a little bit hard. We allowed Ayla to do the honors...she is so sweet! Ayla was having an "off" afternoon during our visit with Zoey...she was serious and fussy. It was a bit windy and chilly but we wondered.... We often find ourselves asking one another; "Does Ayla remember Zoey? As she grows, will she feel

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I really like this song; At times the "Winter Blues" attempt to sneak into my attitude with their cousins, the "Blehs" but music has a way of chasing them off the premises. I appreciate that, and am very grateful for ears that hear and a soul which enjoys uplifting music. Music is a gift from God.   Ayla's birthday is nearing and I've found myself in the "what if" land....not a bad place to

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...if I were a rich man...la dee dum, dee dum, dee da, de daa....you know that song, right? Fiddler on the Roof, a classic! Well, if I were independently wealthy I would love to adopt Special Needs Children- especially Anton. Isn't he precious?? Those children occupy a soft and special place in my heart- they always have. When I grow up; I hope to one day be able to work less and give more. More

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Ryan surprised me this Christmas with a very thoughtful and beautiful gift....a family portrait. Not a "traditional" family portrait but the only picture we have as a family on the day Zoey passed away. It's special and I am grateful for a thoughtful, humble husband who remembers these small details and incorporates them into our lives. It is placed in our dining room- a constant reminder of

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Ryan is superbly talented- have I previously mentioned that? :-) Not only can he bake awesomely he can also build just about anything! He has been blessed with the talent to look at something..... and then build it! A family whom we are close with, asked if Ryan would build a hope chest for their daughter for Christmas.Ryan did and of course- we loved it!   This hope chest was made from Rustic

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I love, LOVE the 'Christmas Chaos'...partially due to growing up in a large family (9 children + parents) there is always chaos, but during the Holidays it is such fun....in a good way!We hosted Christmas dinner and loved the cozy atmosphere it brought into our home with family and friends.Those who know Ryan, know that he is a superb cook and this feast was no exception! Ah the Holidays...you

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One of the great aspects to the Holidays.....GOODIES!!! and of course the awesome family fun of creating such sugary masterpieces!  Trina & Teresa- gorgeous gals!   Taitlyn unwrapping candy...."One for you, 2 for me...one for you...2 for me..."  Let the fRoStInG begin!  Ta-da! Many hours later (and some use of creative kitchen space) we have the finished product! DeLiCiOuS!! The fabulous crew

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Tuesday night we attended a program hosted by St. Luke's Hospital entitled, "An Evening to Remember our Children" which honors those children who have died. It was a sweet program and we were privileged to meet and mingle with other parents whose little ones had passed.What a great service St. Lukes offers and we were grateful to be a part! Before the program we received a candle to light and an

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Is this chair for a giant or are we just little? Yes, this is how we spent our time celebrating our 13-year anniversary; finding the funnies in odd things. Totally awesome! By-the-way; we had an audience of people watching us hop in and out of this gi-hugit chair in attempts to get a picture...they thought we were pretty entertaining! and we started a trend- they wanted their picture sitting

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We are celebrating 13 years...THIRTEEN YEARS!! That's odd because I know I'm only 22 so....where did the time go? There are a bazillion reasons why I love being married to Ryan- but in the interest of time and sanity, have narrowed it down to some favorites;  Ryan is: Someone to Laugh with Someone to talk too Someone to overlook my flaws and love me anyway Someone who believes in me Someone

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This is what happens when Uncle Ryan is responsible for babysitting; his awesome homemade SUGAR COOKIES!! It begins like this....delicious yumminess waiting to be frosted and eaten! and I wonder WHERE and WHY this extra weight is coming from...duh! But sooo worth it! It's the Holidays, right?  Mix the cream-cheese frosting to just the right color scheme..... ...and commence decorating!  Ta-da

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Uncle Ryan has some pretty awesome toenails- courtesy of Taitlyn! She painted so carefully and made sure to go over each nail several times in order to reach the desired color scheme..... Do we have a future nail tech/Cosmetologist in the works? Perhaps even a podiatrist??   The finished Product! Thank you Taitlyn- they are gorgeous! Uncle Ryan- you are the best to sit still and quiet...Love

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This is an activity we haven't participated in for YEARS...beings that our skills were a bit rusty we took the easy-way and worked with stencils.  Ayla 'helping' Ryan carve. Actually, she was more interested in climbing onto his lap in order to reach the door knob to the pantry. Surprisingly, peanut wasn't that interested in the pumpkin-carving-activity! Poor kid, she has some boring parents...

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Storage Space- is there ever enough of it in our home? Ryan is most creative and great at building space where seemingly, there appears none!Though I do admit that his latest project had me a bit concerned- I wasn't able to "see" the vision he had in his minds eye and it was quite the dusty mess! But afterwards.....it was brilliant and beautiful! Ryan built in-set storage shelves into the wall

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Sometimes....we still get sad..... It's been a year and a half since Zoey said goodbye and there lingers a melancholy sadness. In part because as Ayla grows, we find ourselves thinking and occasionally saying, "Wonder what Zoey would be doing right now?"  Don't mistake sadness for depression - we know we'll see Zoey again - it's just that at times, we truly miss the opportunity to raise she and

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It's not often I get together with my *ah-hem* MUCH OLDER sister Josie and goof around (kidding, she is the baby girl and I'm the middle child-as if you can't tell). We donned silly-looking hair accessories.... .....tried on *very* expensive clothing....$450 ensemble, anyone?? For the price, these outfits should've made us look and feel like like a skinny beauty-queens! Josie's comment regarding

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Labor Day was the best day in a loooong time- for a 'date night'!These days, it's a challenge to leave the house as a couple (sans Ayla) but decided that Labor Day would be the day to spend much needed quality time together. Ayla's care-taker was scheduled to work for a few hours and we both had the day off so it was perfect timing.I know you're curious to discover what we did....so hang on- it

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Family Fun at the Western Idaho Fair!We decided to adventure into the wilds- of- the- crowds (with Ayla in tote- aaahhhaa!!!) for a brief time. We are still very nervous about exposing Ayla to groups of people and "Mommy Instincts" kicked into hyper-drive. It's a balance....... We are cautious (perhaps overly so) but any type of cough or lung sickness would be detrimental to Ayla's lung

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Our First Family 'Church' picture!Ayla refused to look at the camera due to the bright light outside....those beautiful eyes are so sensitive! A huge blessing: counted!God speaks to my heart through music- probably because music moves and speaks loudly to my soul. It always has and for that, I am grateful. Recently, the song "Count Your Many Blessings" has been parading through my mind...over and

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This is grandma Coral Stephenson- she is a great lady and the reason for the reunion hosted in Twin Falls this weekend. Grandma is 83 years young and such a sweet woman! She is a wonderful example of faith and raised a beautiful, loving family. This weekend was all about her.....and getting together with family to have fun, catch-up and relax! ~It's a honour to be part of this family~ Mmmm......

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Admitting is the first step....I am "kitchen challenged".It's really no secret (for those of you who know me). I kill at heat n' serve and a veritable pro at the microwave. But baking.....well, we have an understanding; I try and the oven laughs at me, almost every time.Seriously, how hard is it to proof bread dough? If anyone can make a mess of it, it's me. And just as a side note- never let me

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The second annual "Batz Reunion" was hosted in Wisconsin over the weekend of the 4th of July. It was awesome (I'll let the many many pictures below speak for themselves) and most siblings attended except 2 (we missed you Rachel & Barry!). Coordinating and gathering 9 siblings and their families can be tricky but we managed a fun-filled weekend! Ryan and Ayla spent the week at home while I was

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Pictures are worth a thousand words and emotions.....and then more.Ryan is awesome....he loves with his whole heart and serves just as deeply; he loves to serve and help others. I am blessed in that circle of service extends to Ayla and I. Ryan is the BEST father to Ayla, period. He gets up with her during the night, sometimes crams himself into her crib to rub her back, he helps her, he plays

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Ryan is such an awesome husband.... he watched Ayla for 4 days while I attended my niece's wedding and reception. It was a nice break (though I missed Ryan & Ayla TERRIBLY!!) and I didn't have to worry about Ayla because I knew Ryan would be spoiling her!I left the camera at home (agh!) and took these pictures with the cell phone. Alyssa (the bride) is such a beautiful young lady. Though it did

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We packed a lunch, loaded up Ayla and headed to the Caldwell Canyon Hill Cemetery to find some relatives we had discovered during an online genealogy search. It was a beautiful overcast day and we were up for an adventure! It was going to be a challenge locating the Call family headstones (we had a general idea) so we put on our walking shoes, grabbed Ayla's terrain stroller and began the search!

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One year ago today (on the 26th) would mark the 'official' due date for Ayla & Zoey....they would be 1 years old. That feels strange! Today Ayla had an eye appointment downtown and afterwards we took her over to the NICU to visit the RN's, RT's and Doctors that worked with her during her 4.5 month stay. It was almost surreal to see everyone again because Ayla is 3x her size (literally) from when

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This is one of my favorite pictures of Zoey- she is so small! This teddy bears head is roughly as big as my palm and yet it looks huge next to her. Now imagine: Ayla was smaller.... Do you ever get that overwhleming feeling of being blessed and grateful for your life? You know that feeling? It's when you look around and express thanks for where you are.....and you're even grateful for the

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....there are a lot of them and they are everywhere up in everything! Most germs are good, we cannot live without them. Others....not so good. I am not a germaphobic (I swear!).I don't recall giving much thought to bacteria and proper sanitizing until Ayla & Zoey were born. I knew the usual; wash your hands often and don't rub your face. HA! That is just the very tippy-top basic to fighting germs

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My second year getting to celebrate Mothers Day- how cool! I love being mom to Ayla and angel-Zoey. Everyday on my way to work I drive past the cemetery and see Zoey's headstone and cute little solar butterfly and say; 'good morning' and 'good night' to her. It always brings a smile. What a privilege! On Mother's Day weekend we took Ayla on her very first "official" road trip out of town to Twin

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This was sent to me from a friend and I LOVED it!It seems as though Ryan and I get busy between obligations from work, home, church and community that we forget to stop and take it all in...to appreciate and be grateful. This video inspired and reminded me to stop and breathe (and go kiss my babies).Take a few moments to watch, relax, turn up your speakers and re-focus....http://

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A huge THANK YOU to those who donated towards our walk!!!The real "star" of the March for Babies......It was a gorgeous Saturday morning, perfect weather for a 6.2 mile walk. We had a great time 'power-walking' and meeting families who have benefited through the March of Dimes program and research. Perhaps next year we can take little Ayla with us...weather permitting of course! We joined the St

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We are walking on Saturday 24th for the March of Dimes- it should be fun! This is the first time we have participated in a March of Dimes walk and are looking forward to it. If you haven't heard; the March of Dimes is the leading nonprofit organization for pregnancy and baby health and supports research- it's a life saving organization.When we were in Portland for Ayla's eye surgery, we met the

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Happy Easter!We spent a relaxing, Easter weekend watching General Conference and hanging with sweet Ayla.....what could be better? Ayla is such a sweet girl- she sat contentedly in our laps and played on the floor. It was such fun to relax together as a family this special weekend! Ryan cooked a fabulous ham complete with all the trimmings....topped with desert! Easter is such a tender time of

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This has been on our minds: How can we give back? What can we do to help families experiencing the roller-coaster ride of the NICU? How can we bring parents hope? When we were in the hospital with Ayla & Zoey it was scary, overwhelming, sad, happy..... we went through varying array of emotions; up, down, up, down......like a jump rope! It would have been comforting to have been able to talk to

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Me- when I was itty-bitty and cute! Ayla- when she is itty-bitty and cute! Do you see the resemblance?Why blog? To be honest, I didn't ever want to be a "blogger" but slowly began getting into it as relatives and friends did. Eh, it was a way to keep the people's updated of our happenings and keep up with theirs without having to actually talk to them. Is that bad? After Ayla & Zoey were born,

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Ryan is very talented- he has an amazing ability to think and picture in 3-D....he can fix just about anything and builds beautiful wooden pieces. If any of you have seen our entertainment stand then you know what I mean!This is his latest creation; a custom Jewelry Cabinet for yours truly! Front View (pardon the crooked shot) Side View with doors closed. I had requested doors so that my stuff

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Dear Zoey,Today is a special day- a day we will always remember. The weather is about the same as it was a year ago- bleak, looks like rain/snow, kinda cold....we miss you. We placed pretty purple flowers on your site in honor.A year has past already- seems long ago yet only yesterday. It's difficult when we think of Ayla growing up without her little sister (although you were the biggest!) but

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Who says you can't have fun at work?!Being a Food Broker may not be the most exciting career but it DOES have it's perks....like dressing up as a cool 'Hippie Chick' for the day to kick off a manufacturer promotion, singing and dancing to 70's songs while making a fool of yourself in front of 50+ sales associates....all in the name of F-U-N!! I really do love my job- honest! The other hippie in

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I saw a sign that read, "I reject your reality and substitute my own." It brought a smile as I thought about it on the drive from work. It reminded me of how at times, I felt like falling asleep at my computer some days.....just lay my head down and zzzzzzz.... because reality can be cranky and a bit of escapism from time to time is necessary. Ahhhhh Calgon, take me away! Oh, and since I've had

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While Ayla has a lot of stuff going on, Ryan and I merely tote along in her great shadow....and happy to be there too! If it hasn't been mentioned before; Ryan is an awesome guy......and I'm not just saying that because he married me (poor feller-ha!) but he truly has a divine spirit. His positive attitude, willingness to serve and thoughtful nature is an impressive example. I'm always humbled at

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I love people.....I enjoy them......they make me smile. I especially enjoy talking with open-minded, intelligent people who are smart enough to realize they don't know everything and genuinely interested in having a two-way conversation. Although personally, I am more of a listener than a talker. Each person is unique with different life experiences, challenges and stories. One of my favorite

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Lately my posts have been melancholy and reflective and frankly, kinda 'downers'. I am not a 'downer' type person (though don't mistake my seriousness and quietness for sadness) and am actually quite happy and positive. After all, what's the alternative, right? Someone once even described me as "a nice person".....ha! Nice is for people who say things like, "I never apologize. I'm sorry, but

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The Plan: your plan, my plan.....the Master Plan. "The Master's Plan" has been on my mind, a lot. God is good; He has a plan for our lives and wouldn't it be nice to at least have an outline? Or an idea of what our specific accomplishments are suppose to be? For an unknown reason I have been frequently drawn towards reflecting on my life and noting the many miracles which have occurred (those of

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I sometimes wonder at God's sense of humor.....Obviously, God is in charge and knows what is best for us...and although I never question God, I DO have some questions for Him! Ryan has been serving in the Bishopric for a little over two years and prior to that served as the Elder's Quorum President for several years- he is a man of great faith who loves to serve and knowledgeable in the gospel.

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It's always a blast hanging out with my family! My sister from Wisconsin came for a stay and mom from Utah visited as well. Jodi hadn't seen Ayla since she was an itty-bitty back in March....yep, she was MUCH bigger!The last night Jodi was here we gathered together for dinner out and visit. Me and momAyla attempting to eat Jodi's cell phone- chomp, chomp!

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In May when we were in Portland for Ayla's eye surgery, we took an afternoon and walked through the beautiful Rose Gardens and the Japanese Gardens. They were gorgeous and almost didn't seem real....it was a drizzly afternoon but did not dampen the obvious beauty.Although we were not in season to see the roses in bloom through the Rose Garden, it was nonetheless serene; we could clearly see the

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I like blogging.....it's a great way to share information and keep informed and connected. The internet is cool and because I am the type of personality that LOVES information and probably spends too much time researching topics of interest, especially regarding Ayla and micro-preemie's. Ayla is a puzzle; a neat, cute little puzzle with thousands of moving pieces. I know I'll never be able to "

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Recently, we have been in touch with some families currently struggling through the NICU experience with their babies. The NICU can be a scary and overwhelming place, especially for those who are unfamiliar with hospitals or medical 'jargon'. There is a full range of emotions traveling through your mind; scared, worried, sad, happy, frightened, excited, confused and while dealing with those

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A lovely, relaxing Christmas Day........Opening Presents.....Unwrapping Stocking Stuffers....... Watching the Christmas Classics: 'A Christmas Story' and 'How the Grinch Stole Christmas'.....Playing Games ........Taking a nap..... Chillin' as a Family.......Cute "little santa"......Ayla keeping us entertained!! and of course- ALL THE YUMMY FOOD!!!!!It was a beautiful Christmas Day!

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Merry Christmas Zoey Munkin!A Christmas wreath for festive color.........and ornaments to remember gifts from the shepherds..........to celebrate the glory of Christ's birth and to spread 'Peace on Earth'We miss you sweet girl!

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A short (true) story:Once upon a time there was a young lady who was always in a hurry....zip, zip, zipping around town on work and personal errands. Her days were full but her heart was open. One wintry day while waiting in line at the grocery store she unknowingly met a Christmas Angel. This angel was not dressed in white nor heralding trumpets of glad tidings. He was older, dressed modestly

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We have snow....just a tiny bit but regardless, it's still SNOW!!! Totally loving it and the best part is that it's sticking! Snow doesn't usually last long in the Boise Valley (except in the mountains) but it's been cold enough recently that it has. Feels more like "Christmas" with a bit of white, beautiful snow on ground.... Ryan is awesome; he was up early scraping driveways and taking care

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Thursday night Ryan and I attended a special program hosted every year by St. Luke's called an 'Evening of Memories'. It's a service of remembrance for the loved ones we have lost in our lives. It was touching and emotional and (silly me!) I forgot the tissues in haste to get out the door! There were beautiful musical selections, moments of silence and encouraging words spoken by those who have

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I absolutely love Christmas and everything about it...... The lights, the excitement, the giddiness, the giving, the food, the candy, the Christmas Spirit but most importantly, I LOVE the specific focus on the birth of Christ.I am a spiritually sensitive person and wear emotions on my sleeve when it comes to the spiritual side of life; more so since the passing of Zoey and the many miracles of

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Today celebrates our 12th Year Anniversary! A perfect day to celebrate as it's also Thanksgiving Day!The blessings in our lives have far outweighed any challenges we have faced and we have grown only closer and more in love throughout the years. When we were recently married, it was almost impossible to think that we could possibly grow to love each other more- we were so in love as it was! Yet

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We find ourselves running into this situation often when one asks, "How many children do you have?" to which we reply, "Two girls." Invariably the follow-up question is, "How old are they?"Which then leads to the explanation, "They are identical twins born in February, 3 months early. Ayla & Zoey. One lives with us and one lives in heaven." We say this always, with a smile. At that point, people

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Back in March one of my sisters had a great idea; dedicate the 8th day of every month to performing a "Random Act of Kindness" in honor of baby Zoey who passed away March 8th. We love it! Here is how Wikipedia defines a random act of kindness….“A random act of kindness is a purportedly selfless act performed by a person or persons wishing to either assist or cheer up an individual or in some

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Sweet feet....Was thinking today: Ayla has been home for 4 months....really? It's so incredible! I recall sitting with her in the NICU thinking we'd never get out....yet we escaped! She was so small, impossibly so- and now she is big and chubby and freaking adorable! She was always adorable though....Life has certainly changed for us- and we wouldn't have it any other way. Ayla and Zoey brought a

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Questions, questions.....Since Ayla & Zoey's birth and the multiple complications they experienced (and Ayla continues) I have been researching the "why's". Just that kinda gal- want to know 'why' and 'what-to-do' and 'how-to-improve'. I believe every parent to a baby with complications or special needs does this- it's our inherent nature to search for a solution, to "fix it". We never stop

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We've been waiting several months to become approved for Respite Care for little Ayla- at first attempt we were declined, then later approved for a home care provider and not an RN. Which is great, but a mystery why Medicaid has been difficult to work with...oh wait, it's Medicaid that's why (silly me)! Our doctor was surprised to learn that Ayla did not qualify for Nursing Care and limited hours

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Getting displays ready for the Food ShowSo much to do- so little time!!!Julie & I in the Simplot Booth We had 10 booths at the show- whew!The end of June was a blessed time for us- it's the time Ayla came home! Since Ayla has been home, Ryan and I have been working 'shifts' so one of us is always home with the tinker-bean. It's been great! I usually work from 2pm-6pm though it's been difficult

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A friend posted this song on her blog and it touched deeply. Their family experienced the loss of a son in July...... the song is entitled, "Smallest, Wingless" about loving and losing. It's beautiful and a tribute to those volunteer photographers that donate their time and talents to parents of angel-babies. "We say hello and goodbye at the same time"....Enjoy! Oh, and you might want a tissue

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My favorite nail polish- "Elegance" by OPI. It's Zoey's color; the one I wore the day of her passing because I wanted something shiny and happy...and it is! Added a purple butterfly decal in her honor....we've always associated purple butterflies with Zoey-Munkin...it suits her. Zoey is Purple and Ayla is Pink- although purple is sassy and Ayla is definitely that!It may seem silly but when I wear

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September 2008- playing in the garage....Ryan and I were discussing how within one short year, our life dramatically changed; and for the better. Not just because of having Ayla & Zoey but because of them and the life-altering experiences they brought. It's been lessons in excitement, fear, love, grief, bravery, humility and endurance. We feel sort of emotionally "old"........ if there is even

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The other night had a dream about my sweet Zoey-girl which has placed me in a happy/melancholy mood the past few days....it was precious and Zoey was telling me she's doing a most important work! I'm typically not an "emotional" person on the surface, but sheesh- drop a frowny face and I'll tear-up! I can blame it on allergies....ha! Not to mention have been arguing with the flu the past few

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Today 7 months ago Ayla & Zoey arrived!It's difficult to believe that Ayla is already seven months old...really? It's been an eventful seven months but so sweet! Ayla is such a miracle girl and fun to have home- she's survived 2.5 months home with us and we've survived her, too! Every month on the 12th we always say a special prayer of gratitude for our blessings and every month on the 8th we

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Today we spent some family time with Ayla and Zoey- it was great to take Ayla to visit her sister and feel Zoey's sweet spirit. We always leave feel uplifted and comforted whenever we visit. We were discussing how cute it will be when Ayla is big enough to crawl roound Zoey's headstone and slobber on her picture :-).

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Today was special- Zoey's marker is finally complete! The headstone is beautiful and the picture of sweet Zoey is perfect- we are very happy! Zoey is buried inside BabyLand at the Meridian Cemetery; it's lovely and close to home. Perhaps on Sunday we will go for a family drive and take Ayla to visit her little sister......We love and miss you Zoey Munkin!

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Sharing a few thoughts...... You don't mind going to bed at 9 p.m. on a Friday nightSilence? What's that?You respect your body ... finallyYou realize that the 15 pounds you can't seem to get rid of are totally worth havingYou discover an inner strength you never thought you hadYou no longer rely on a clock — your baby now sets your scheduleYou give parents with a screaming child an '

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I belong to a micro-preemie support group and one of the ladies there emailed this article (link below) posted by the New York Times which I thought was worth sharing. Her name is Abby and she is one of the mothers featured in the article. http://www.nytimes.com/2009/08/25/health/25trau.html?_r=2&pagewanted=1&hpwIt brings out some interesting points; so if Ryan and I "go loco" on ya'll you'll

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This is an introspective post so pardon the rambling thoughts....Sunday was a day for thinking and reflection. I attended the last portion of church and the lesson was on 'Adversity' and how adversity allows us to become stronger and draw closer to our Heavenly Father. I enjoy listening to the comments made by those women attending the class as most are very enlightening and others, well, others

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BIG yawns...don't we all feel like this at times?Ayla has begun to dislike her baths...intensely! Not sure why, she used to LUV them!So, we posted a funny video on her blog. You'll have to check it out;http://amazingayla.blogspot.com/In other news: it's been a fairly uneventful week (whew!). We have both been busy with work and keeping up with Miss Ayla, she has loads of energy! That energy comes

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Miss Ayla received many visitors this weekend for the Stephenson Reunion- she was quite the popular "attraction"..... haa haa. It was viewings through the back door for the kiddo's! It's amazing how much she is growing and how strong she is becoming- we love our little miracle!Quick update: I went back to work very part time from 2-5pm, enough to escape the house for a bit and keep my food

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Last year from April-October we hosted the missionaries in our home, it was a great experience and one we will always remember. This afternoon Elder Richard Holloman stopped in to say goodbye, he is going back home on Thursday to New Jersey. Elder Holloman was one of the first missionaries we hosted and was with us for about four months- we are grateful to have gotten to know him while he served,

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My cute Nephew, Aundrey Stuffing our faces at FuddruckersFamily visit! Carrie and her boys, Mason and Aundrey, came up from Wisconsin for a visit. Kenalee also accompanied them on the looong drive; 24 hours to reach Idaho. Now that's a drive!Carrie and Kenalee were able to spend a few hours with Miss Ayla on Wednesday and feel her sweet personality and listen to her funny gruntings and noises.

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Anyone who knows me knows that I have a 'black thumb' when it comes to living plants- seriously. Poor things don't stand a chance around me.... Every year I plant flowers in the planter pots around the pond and back patio and usually have to replace them once or twice throughout the summer season.....something about needing to water and feed regularly? Anyway, haven't had much time to work on the

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Ryan working on the treeIt's great having Ryan home for the week (a girl could get used to this!)- he's such an awesome husband! Today the project was the out-of-control-willow-tree in the backyard. Seriously, this tree is affectionately known as the "weed tree" because of it's ability to grow despite unintentional efforts to destroy it. Poor little tree had a rough start in life but has managed

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Ryan and I went on 'hot date' Friday night and left Ayla with the babysitter for a few hours (she has an awesome and very expensive sitter) to watch the Dairy Days Parade in Meridian. It was great entertainment and packed! Although it was a bit rainy and cold that didn't stop the celebration and the live band from rocking the streets....this may be one of the last times we'll be able to get out

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Where is time going? Excuse my thinking-out-loud for a moment; I feel like we've been living in a time-warp for the past 4.5 months...are we seriously halfway through June already? Wow! Ayla is closer to coming home, our house is almost ready and I'm really not sure if WE are mentally ready...oh my! I think about bringing little girl home and it scares/excites me, literally. The roller-coaster

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